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Girls Play Dead

Acts of Self-Preservation

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A lyrical and groundbreaking exploration of the misun­derstood ways women survive and forever carry trauma from the award-winning New York Times Magazine writer Jen Percy.

“A groundbreaking exploration of women’s often shamed and silenced responses to sexual assault...Extensive, empathetic...A vital record of a little discussed aspect of women’s lived reality.” 
Publishers Weekly (starred review)

“Girls Play Dead reads like a novel, exquisitely rendered, and a kind of geography, mapping out the complexities of women’s experiences going ‘down below’ and the specific ways that they come to understand their altered bodies and minds.” 
—Rachel Aviv, New York Times bestselling author of Strangers to Ourselves


After a childhood spent learning survival strategies in the wilderness, Jen Percy thought she knew how she would respond in the face of danger. But a series of unsettling interactions with men left her feeling betrayed and confounded by her body's passivity. Forced to reckon the myths of her own empowerment, Percy set off a broader inquiry into the way fear shapes behavior in the context of sexual violence, including the strange behaviors of three generations of women in her family. 
         
Drawing on original reporting, years of conversations with survivors, and her own life story, Percy explores the surprising ways in which responses to sexual violence are shaped by both evolutionary instinct and gendered scripts. She takes on taboo subjects—orgasms during assault, sexual promiscuity, female rage, freezing and passivity—illuminating how society misreads these acts as deviance or consent, rather than brilliant acts of self-preservation.

Like Joan Didion, Katherine Boo, and Janet Malcolm, Percy is a fearless cultural critic with a talent for wresting deep truths from lived experiences. Girls Play Dead meaningfully expands the language available to survivors and complicates our expectations of how a trauma story should sound—especially when belief, justice, and healing are contingent on how well a story “makes sense.” Percy examines how trauma corrupts storytelling itself, making survivors’ accounts seem fractured or surreal—and therefore less credible to institutions demanding coherence—resulting in an ambitious testament to the mind as a record of resilience.
One of the New York Times' Fall Preview Picks • One of the Washington Post's Fall Preview Picks • One of Lit Hub's Most Anticipated Books of 2025 • One of Apple Books' Best Books of the Month • One of Harper's Bazaar's Best Books of Fall 2025 • One of The Millions' Great Fall Books

Girls Play Dead reads like a novel, exquisitely rendered, and a kind of geography, mapping out the complexities of women’s experiences going 'down below' and the specific ways that they come to understand their altered bodies and minds. Percy is a beautiful writer who somehow finds the narratives that exist in the spaces of the ones we already know.” —Rachel Aviv, New York Times bestselling author of Strangers to Ourselves: Unsettled Minds and the Stories that Make Us

Girls Play Dead is a captivating, myth-busting look at sexual assault….Percy’s writing is consistently lovely, even when her subject is almost unbearably dark. Readers are swept along on the tide of her imagery.”The Washington Post

“A brave and clear-eyed look at the ways sexual assault affects women, Jen Percy brings her gimlet eye and scalpel prose to a topic as ugly as it is ubiquitous. This is a work of cultural criticism and self-examination that really does (cliche be damned!) read like a novel. What makes the book beautiful is its stalwart commitment to honesty and compassion.”The Boston Globe

“Percy brings her unflinchingly compassionate gaze to trauma suffered by victims of sexual assault....[She] generously threads in her own memories throughout, from her singular upbringing surviving the Oregon wilderness to her own passivity in early sexual experiences with men….Groundbreaking and nuanced.”Vulture

“A groundbreaking exploration of women’s often shamed and silenced responses to sexual assault. . . .Extensive, empathetic. . . .A vital record of a little discussed aspect of women’s lived reality.” Publishers Weekly (starred review)

“Jen Percy has captured, in the most lyrical and authentic way possible, what it means to be a woman alive today. The threats, the systems, the brutality and the beauty. Girls Play Dead illustrates what our best books can do, what they can say in a time of crisis, and indeed, why we need them for our very survival. I read it, got to the end and immediately began again. It is so full of wisdom and heart and somehow—I don’t know how she’s done it—makes me feel less alone in the world. I am fully in awe of this book.” —Rachel Louise Snyder, author of No Visible Bruises and Women We Buried, Women We Burned

Girls Play Dead is the book I have been waiting for—a book about freezing, frozen women, hysterical women, trembling women, and how these reactions to trauma, insensible as they may outwardly seem, are our purest acts of survival. Jen Percy is a magician.” —Ingrid Rojas Contreras, author of the Pulitzer Prize and National Book Award finalist The Man Who Could Move Clouds

“[Jen Percy shows] an immense capacity for empathy and nuance. . . .Percy has done an excellent job of discussing an essential topic with understanding and sensitivity. The openness and willingness to consider the most difficult aspects of an already difficult subject are remarkable, as are the research and the understanding needed to tell these critical stories.”Kirkus Reviews

Girls Play Dead is a masterful, prose-driven, consistently surprising literary examination of fear itself. This book will change the way you think about other minds.”
—Kerry Howley, author of National Book Critics Circle Award finalist Bottoms Up and the Devil Laughs: A Journey Through the Deep State

“A rigorous and groundbreaking inquiry, Jen Percy's Girls Play Dead reminds us that there is so much more to understand about women's inner lives and the impact of sexual violence. Percy's entirely fresh perspective is liberating and expansive, as are her luminous descriptions of her unique childhood. The story of a young woman's formative experiences has never been told quite like this.” —Suzy Hansen, author of the Pulitzer Prize finalist Notes on a Foreign Country

“With Girls Play Dead, Jen Percy captures an entire dimension of women’s experience that until now has remained unnameable. Through several compelling voices, including her own, she tells of the often-surprising ways in which our bodies absorb shames and traumas great and small, and how far our minds can stretch to spin stories that help us survive. So many women have been waiting for a way to have this conversation—and here it is.” —Alex Mar, author of Seventy Times Seven: A True Story of Murder and Mercy

“[Girls Play Dead] unflinchingly tackles the issue of gender-based sexual violence . . . Drawing from both her own personal history and investigative reporting, Percy is determined to disrupt the ways we are conditioned to think about sexual abuse, intergenerational trauma, and survival.” Harper's Bazaar

“Percy's inquiry embraces contradiction . . . .Accessible reading on a difficult and necessary topic." Booklist
© Beowulf Sheehan
JEN PERCY is a contributing writer at the New York Times Magazine and recipient of the National Magazine Award for Feature Writing. She is the author of the nonfiction book Demon Camp, which was a New York Times Notable Book. Percy has received numerous awards including a Pushcart Prize, the National Endowment for the Arts grant, and fellowships from the Bread Loaf Writers’ Conference and the MacDowell Colony. A graduate of the Iowa Writers’ Workshop, Percy has published essays in the New York Times Magazine, The New York Times Sunday Book Review, Harper's, BookForum, The New Republic, Esquire, and elsewhere. She teaches writing at Columbia University. View titles by Jen Percy

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A lyrical and groundbreaking exploration of the misun­derstood ways women survive and forever carry trauma from the award-winning New York Times Magazine writer Jen Percy.

“A groundbreaking exploration of women’s often shamed and silenced responses to sexual assault...Extensive, empathetic...A vital record of a little discussed aspect of women’s lived reality.” 
Publishers Weekly (starred review)

“Girls Play Dead reads like a novel, exquisitely rendered, and a kind of geography, mapping out the complexities of women’s experiences going ‘down below’ and the specific ways that they come to understand their altered bodies and minds.” 
—Rachel Aviv, New York Times bestselling author of Strangers to Ourselves


After a childhood spent learning survival strategies in the wilderness, Jen Percy thought she knew how she would respond in the face of danger. But a series of unsettling interactions with men left her feeling betrayed and confounded by her body's passivity. Forced to reckon the myths of her own empowerment, Percy set off a broader inquiry into the way fear shapes behavior in the context of sexual violence, including the strange behaviors of three generations of women in her family. 
         
Drawing on original reporting, years of conversations with survivors, and her own life story, Percy explores the surprising ways in which responses to sexual violence are shaped by both evolutionary instinct and gendered scripts. She takes on taboo subjects—orgasms during assault, sexual promiscuity, female rage, freezing and passivity—illuminating how society misreads these acts as deviance or consent, rather than brilliant acts of self-preservation.

Like Joan Didion, Katherine Boo, and Janet Malcolm, Percy is a fearless cultural critic with a talent for wresting deep truths from lived experiences. Girls Play Dead meaningfully expands the language available to survivors and complicates our expectations of how a trauma story should sound—especially when belief, justice, and healing are contingent on how well a story “makes sense.” Percy examines how trauma corrupts storytelling itself, making survivors’ accounts seem fractured or surreal—and therefore less credible to institutions demanding coherence—resulting in an ambitious testament to the mind as a record of resilience.

Reviews

One of the New York Times' Fall Preview Picks • One of the Washington Post's Fall Preview Picks • One of Lit Hub's Most Anticipated Books of 2025 • One of Apple Books' Best Books of the Month • One of Harper's Bazaar's Best Books of Fall 2025 • One of The Millions' Great Fall Books

Girls Play Dead reads like a novel, exquisitely rendered, and a kind of geography, mapping out the complexities of women’s experiences going 'down below' and the specific ways that they come to understand their altered bodies and minds. Percy is a beautiful writer who somehow finds the narratives that exist in the spaces of the ones we already know.” —Rachel Aviv, New York Times bestselling author of Strangers to Ourselves: Unsettled Minds and the Stories that Make Us

Girls Play Dead is a captivating, myth-busting look at sexual assault….Percy’s writing is consistently lovely, even when her subject is almost unbearably dark. Readers are swept along on the tide of her imagery.”The Washington Post

“A brave and clear-eyed look at the ways sexual assault affects women, Jen Percy brings her gimlet eye and scalpel prose to a topic as ugly as it is ubiquitous. This is a work of cultural criticism and self-examination that really does (cliche be damned!) read like a novel. What makes the book beautiful is its stalwart commitment to honesty and compassion.”The Boston Globe

“Percy brings her unflinchingly compassionate gaze to trauma suffered by victims of sexual assault....[She] generously threads in her own memories throughout, from her singular upbringing surviving the Oregon wilderness to her own passivity in early sexual experiences with men….Groundbreaking and nuanced.”Vulture

“A groundbreaking exploration of women’s often shamed and silenced responses to sexual assault. . . .Extensive, empathetic. . . .A vital record of a little discussed aspect of women’s lived reality.” Publishers Weekly (starred review)

“Jen Percy has captured, in the most lyrical and authentic way possible, what it means to be a woman alive today. The threats, the systems, the brutality and the beauty. Girls Play Dead illustrates what our best books can do, what they can say in a time of crisis, and indeed, why we need them for our very survival. I read it, got to the end and immediately began again. It is so full of wisdom and heart and somehow—I don’t know how she’s done it—makes me feel less alone in the world. I am fully in awe of this book.” —Rachel Louise Snyder, author of No Visible Bruises and Women We Buried, Women We Burned

Girls Play Dead is the book I have been waiting for—a book about freezing, frozen women, hysterical women, trembling women, and how these reactions to trauma, insensible as they may outwardly seem, are our purest acts of survival. Jen Percy is a magician.” —Ingrid Rojas Contreras, author of the Pulitzer Prize and National Book Award finalist The Man Who Could Move Clouds

“[Jen Percy shows] an immense capacity for empathy and nuance. . . .Percy has done an excellent job of discussing an essential topic with understanding and sensitivity. The openness and willingness to consider the most difficult aspects of an already difficult subject are remarkable, as are the research and the understanding needed to tell these critical stories.”Kirkus Reviews

Girls Play Dead is a masterful, prose-driven, consistently surprising literary examination of fear itself. This book will change the way you think about other minds.”
—Kerry Howley, author of National Book Critics Circle Award finalist Bottoms Up and the Devil Laughs: A Journey Through the Deep State

“A rigorous and groundbreaking inquiry, Jen Percy's Girls Play Dead reminds us that there is so much more to understand about women's inner lives and the impact of sexual violence. Percy's entirely fresh perspective is liberating and expansive, as are her luminous descriptions of her unique childhood. The story of a young woman's formative experiences has never been told quite like this.” —Suzy Hansen, author of the Pulitzer Prize finalist Notes on a Foreign Country

“With Girls Play Dead, Jen Percy captures an entire dimension of women’s experience that until now has remained unnameable. Through several compelling voices, including her own, she tells of the often-surprising ways in which our bodies absorb shames and traumas great and small, and how far our minds can stretch to spin stories that help us survive. So many women have been waiting for a way to have this conversation—and here it is.” —Alex Mar, author of Seventy Times Seven: A True Story of Murder and Mercy

“[Girls Play Dead] unflinchingly tackles the issue of gender-based sexual violence . . . Drawing from both her own personal history and investigative reporting, Percy is determined to disrupt the ways we are conditioned to think about sexual abuse, intergenerational trauma, and survival.” Harper's Bazaar

“Percy's inquiry embraces contradiction . . . .Accessible reading on a difficult and necessary topic." Booklist

Author

© Beowulf Sheehan
JEN PERCY is a contributing writer at the New York Times Magazine and recipient of the National Magazine Award for Feature Writing. She is the author of the nonfiction book Demon Camp, which was a New York Times Notable Book. Percy has received numerous awards including a Pushcart Prize, the National Endowment for the Arts grant, and fellowships from the Bread Loaf Writers’ Conference and the MacDowell Colony. A graduate of the Iowa Writers’ Workshop, Percy has published essays in the New York Times Magazine, The New York Times Sunday Book Review, Harper's, BookForum, The New Republic, Esquire, and elsewhere. She teaches writing at Columbia University. View titles by Jen Percy
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