Harder, Better, Longer, Stronger

Science, Skills, and Secrets for the Best Sex of Your Life

Author Caitlin V
Read by Caitlin V
The Sex Playbook Men Were Never Given from a Coach Who’s Helped Millions!

Every man wants to feel confident in bed. Hard when he wants to be, in control of when he finishes, and deeply connected with his partner. Yet most men were handed the pressure without the playbook. They’re expected to perform but were never actually taught how their bodies, minds, and sexual systems work.

Harder, Better, Longer, Stronger finally changes that.

This enhanced audiobook edition goes far beyond the printed book, with short, guided sessions woven between each chapter that are like check-ins from your personal coach. These step-by-step practices and words of encouragement help you slow down, reconnect with your body, and practice what you’re learning instead of just thinking about it. 

Then, at the end, you’ll receive four bonus exercises, including: 

  • Writing a Love Letter to Your Cock
  • Sexual History Timeline
  • Energy Cock Visualization
  • Erotic Mind Mapping

Each exercise is designed as a standalone practice that you can return to again and again.

Together, these tools create a complete, immersive coaching experience that helps you transform not just your sex life, but your entire relationship with your body, confidence, and pleasure.

In this audiobook, you’ll finally be able to:

  • Identify the real root cause of performance anxiety (and dissolve it)
  • Stay hard and last longer, without pills, numbing sprays, or gimmicks
  • Rebuild trust, intimacy, and sexual connection with your partner
  • Create a sex life that’s fulfilling and satisfying to both you and your partner for years to come

This isn’t about gimmicks or hacks. It’s about finally understanding how your body and mind actually work. 

It’s time to take ownership of your erotic power and become the kind of lover you’ve always wanted to be!
Harder, Better, Longer, Stronger is the user manual that probably should have come with your penis. Whether you’re looking to build up your confidence, cultivate deeper connection with a partner, or simply have hotter sex, Caitlin V has you covered. Equal parts science, skill-building, and pep talk, this book is a bedside essential.”
Justin J. Lehmiller, PhD, senior research fellow at the Kinsey Institute and author of Tell Me What You Want

“Caitlin V has created the ultimate handbook for male sexual confidence. Harder, Better, Longer, Stronger combines practical skills, mindset shifts, and a sex-positive approach that will leave men and their partners more satisfied than ever. This is a must-read for anyone ready to up their pleasure game.”
Emily Morse, doctor of human sexuality, founder of Sex with Emily, and author of Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure

“Finally, a book that understands men’s sexuality in all its complexity. Caitlin V delivers practical, proven tools that make sex more fun, more connected, and more satisfying—for both you and your partner. It’s the confidence boost every guy deserves.”
Dr. Sadie Allison, best-selling author of Tickle His Pickle and founder of Tickle Kitty

“Caitlin V gets men and the challenges they face in the bedroom. Harder, Better, Longer, Stronger offers a blend of practical skill-building and deep emotional insight that will help you create real intimacy and lasting confidence. This is the manual for you as a man to get what you want from your sex life—and from yourself.”
Connor Beaton, founder of ManTalks and author of Men’s Work

Harder, Better, Longer, Stronger is playful, sexy, and full of real solutions for men who want to be extraordinary lovers. Caitlin V speaks the truth with warmth and humor, making even the most taboo topics feel easy to talk about. Every man should have this on his nightstand.”
Dr. Tara, host of LuvBites by Dr. Tara and author of How Do You Like It?

“Dear Dudes, if you want sex to be harder, better, and longer-lasting, Caitlin V is the scientifically trained, sex-hacking cheerleader you need!”
Billy Procida, host of the Manwhore Podcast

“In Harder, Better, Longer, Stronger, Caitlin V goes far beyond performance hacks. She dismantles the toxic ‘Man Box’ that keeps men trapped in shame and replaces it with a compassionate, science-based road map for sexual confidence. This is the book men have been waiting for: empathetic, practical, and genuinely life-changing. Caitlin V has the rare gift of tackling tough men’s issues with both compassion and science. Every man should read this.”
Holly Randall, host of Holly Randall Unfiltered, director, and photographer

Harder, Better, Longer, Stronger is an essential, holistic guide for men seeking a more pleasurable and fulfilling life. Caitlin’s compassionate, direct, and normalizing approach makes learning fun and accessible. If you’re ready to expand your understanding of sex and discover practical, approachable tools for deeper connection and hotter pleasure, this is the book for you!”
Nicoletta von Heidegger, MA, MEd, LMFT, CST, host of Sluts & Scholars

“Confidence is the ultimate currency in the bedroom. And when you gain authentic confidence by reading this book, you become the powerful, respected lover your woman adores and other men envy.”
Susan Bratton, “Intimacy Expert To Millions”

About

The Sex Playbook Men Were Never Given from a Coach Who’s Helped Millions!

Every man wants to feel confident in bed. Hard when he wants to be, in control of when he finishes, and deeply connected with his partner. Yet most men were handed the pressure without the playbook. They’re expected to perform but were never actually taught how their bodies, minds, and sexual systems work.

Harder, Better, Longer, Stronger finally changes that.

This enhanced audiobook edition goes far beyond the printed book, with short, guided sessions woven between each chapter that are like check-ins from your personal coach. These step-by-step practices and words of encouragement help you slow down, reconnect with your body, and practice what you’re learning instead of just thinking about it. 

Then, at the end, you’ll receive four bonus exercises, including: 

  • Writing a Love Letter to Your Cock
  • Sexual History Timeline
  • Energy Cock Visualization
  • Erotic Mind Mapping

Each exercise is designed as a standalone practice that you can return to again and again.

Together, these tools create a complete, immersive coaching experience that helps you transform not just your sex life, but your entire relationship with your body, confidence, and pleasure.

In this audiobook, you’ll finally be able to:

  • Identify the real root cause of performance anxiety (and dissolve it)
  • Stay hard and last longer, without pills, numbing sprays, or gimmicks
  • Rebuild trust, intimacy, and sexual connection with your partner
  • Create a sex life that’s fulfilling and satisfying to both you and your partner for years to come

This isn’t about gimmicks or hacks. It’s about finally understanding how your body and mind actually work. 

It’s time to take ownership of your erotic power and become the kind of lover you’ve always wanted to be!

Reviews

Harder, Better, Longer, Stronger is the user manual that probably should have come with your penis. Whether you’re looking to build up your confidence, cultivate deeper connection with a partner, or simply have hotter sex, Caitlin V has you covered. Equal parts science, skill-building, and pep talk, this book is a bedside essential.”
Justin J. Lehmiller, PhD, senior research fellow at the Kinsey Institute and author of Tell Me What You Want

“Caitlin V has created the ultimate handbook for male sexual confidence. Harder, Better, Longer, Stronger combines practical skills, mindset shifts, and a sex-positive approach that will leave men and their partners more satisfied than ever. This is a must-read for anyone ready to up their pleasure game.”
Emily Morse, doctor of human sexuality, founder of Sex with Emily, and author of Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure

“Finally, a book that understands men’s sexuality in all its complexity. Caitlin V delivers practical, proven tools that make sex more fun, more connected, and more satisfying—for both you and your partner. It’s the confidence boost every guy deserves.”
Dr. Sadie Allison, best-selling author of Tickle His Pickle and founder of Tickle Kitty

“Caitlin V gets men and the challenges they face in the bedroom. Harder, Better, Longer, Stronger offers a blend of practical skill-building and deep emotional insight that will help you create real intimacy and lasting confidence. This is the manual for you as a man to get what you want from your sex life—and from yourself.”
Connor Beaton, founder of ManTalks and author of Men’s Work

Harder, Better, Longer, Stronger is playful, sexy, and full of real solutions for men who want to be extraordinary lovers. Caitlin V speaks the truth with warmth and humor, making even the most taboo topics feel easy to talk about. Every man should have this on his nightstand.”
Dr. Tara, host of LuvBites by Dr. Tara and author of How Do You Like It?

“Dear Dudes, if you want sex to be harder, better, and longer-lasting, Caitlin V is the scientifically trained, sex-hacking cheerleader you need!”
Billy Procida, host of the Manwhore Podcast

“In Harder, Better, Longer, Stronger, Caitlin V goes far beyond performance hacks. She dismantles the toxic ‘Man Box’ that keeps men trapped in shame and replaces it with a compassionate, science-based road map for sexual confidence. This is the book men have been waiting for: empathetic, practical, and genuinely life-changing. Caitlin V has the rare gift of tackling tough men’s issues with both compassion and science. Every man should read this.”
Holly Randall, host of Holly Randall Unfiltered, director, and photographer

Harder, Better, Longer, Stronger is an essential, holistic guide for men seeking a more pleasurable and fulfilling life. Caitlin’s compassionate, direct, and normalizing approach makes learning fun and accessible. If you’re ready to expand your understanding of sex and discover practical, approachable tools for deeper connection and hotter pleasure, this is the book for you!”
Nicoletta von Heidegger, MA, MEd, LMFT, CST, host of Sluts & Scholars

“Confidence is the ultimate currency in the bedroom. And when you gain authentic confidence by reading this book, you become the powerful, respected lover your woman adores and other men envy.”
Susan Bratton, “Intimacy Expert To Millions”

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