"Love is your destiny. It is the purpose of your life. It is the key to your happiness and to the evolution of the world."

Loveability is a meditation on love. It addresses the most important thing you will ever learn. All the happiness, health, and abundance you experience in life comes from your ability to love and be loved. This ability is innate, not acquired.

Robert Holden is the creator of a unique program on love called Loveability, which he teaches worldwide. He has helped thousands of people to transform their experience of love. "Love is the real work of your life," says Robert. "As you release the blocks to love you flourish even more in your relationships, work, and life."

In Loveability, Robert weaves a beautiful mix of timeless principles and helpful practices about the nature of true love. With great intimacy and warmth, he shares stories, conversations, meditations, and poetry that have inspired him in his personal inquiry on love. Key themes include:

   • Your destiny is not just to find love; it is to be the most loving person you can be.
   • Self-love is how you are meant to feel about yourself. It is the key to loving others.
   • When you think something is missing in a relationship, it is probably you.
   • Forgiveness helps you to see that love has never hurt you; it is only your misperceptions of love that hurt.
   • The greatest influence you can have in any situation is to be the presence of love.
“Robert Holden is the ideal example of Loveability. He certainly knows how to love and be loved. He loves everyone he knows, and we all love him in return. He knows and understands what stands in the way of loving ourselves and others. And most importantly he knows and teaches how to dissolve these blocks. How could we not love him?”
— Louise Hay, author of Love Yourself, Heal Your Life Workbook

“Robert Holden is a teacher of incredible wisdom, integrity, and compassion. This beautiful book is a joyous reminder of the transformative power of love in the world. I heartily recommend Loveability to all.”
— Dr. Brian Weiss, author of Only Love Is Real

Loveability is an inspiring book that gently encourages readers to reflect upon their relationship to the nature and the power of love itself. Nothing could be more timely or more transformational.”
— Caroline Myss, New York Times best-selling author of Defy Gravity and Archetypes: Who Are You?

Loveability teaches you how to undo the blocks that prevent you from having more love in all your relationships. I wholeheartedly recommend this book.”
— Marci Shimoff, New York Times best-selling author of Love for No Reason

“I am a devoted Robert Holden fan and have fallen madly, deeply for his new book! It teaches us the most important thing we can do— give and receive love. Robert will help you open your eyes so you can open your heart and create a life full of joy and love. Everyone—and I do mean everyone—should read this life-uplifting book.”
— Kris Carr, New York Times best-selling author of Crazy Sexy Kitchen and Crazy Sexy Diet

“Robert Holden has written a beautiful treatise on love. Please give yourself this gift.”
— Cheryl Richardson, author of The Art of Extreme Self-Care


“It’s not easy to discuss love in a way that is not overly sentimental (or perceived as such). Robert Holden writes with a sense of humor, clarity, and compassion about the depth of love we are all capable of, and in fact we all embody. This is a joyful, illuminating book to read.”
— Sharon Salzberg, author of Lovingkindness

“Robert Holden’s new book, Loveability, guides us to stop looking for love and accept our truth: that we are love. This book is a magnificent guide toward unlearning the fears that block us from the presence of love within. I love this book!”
— Gabrielle Bernstein, author of Spirit Junkie and May Cause Miracles

“It is a pleasure to endorse your book. Congratulations! This is a great book; real love makes a difference in life.”
— Miguel Angel Ruiz, author of The Four Agreements

Loveability teaches you to listen to the voice of love in your heart. It helps you to forgive the past, to live in the present, and to make love more important than fear.”
— Gerald Jampolsky, author of Love is Letting Go of Fear

Loveability should be placed in every soul’s backpack before we come to this planet to help us remember what we have forgotten.”
— Chuck Spezzano, author of If It Hurts, It isn’t Love

“I am in awe of Robert Holden’s ability to translate the wisdom of love in such simple and relatable terms. Loveabilityis a masterpiece of the heart and a must read for anyone seeking to be inspired to live a love-based life.”
— Mastin Kipp, CEO and founder of TheDailyLove.com

Loveability beautifully escorts the reader into the very heart of what we seek most, which is to be loved. Poetic, grounding, honest, and raw, it lifts the veil of dark confusion and fear to reveal that we can never be separated from the love we seek, because it is who we are. Its healing words will stay with you long after the last page.”
— Sonia Choquette, author of Traveling at the Speed of Love
 
“This book is a gem! It opened my heart wide, and it can profoundly transform your life as well. The author, Robert Holden, embodies Loveability; love pours out of every molecule of his body, and he has infused this book with the sweet energy of love. You can feel it radiate into your heart from every page. Highly recommended!”
— Denise Linn, author of The Soul Loves the Truth

“Robert Holden is one of the clearest, purest, and most poignant voices for love in our time. You will find no greater teaching than this book contains. If you are seeking love, you will find the key in these pages. If you have found love, you will find more here. Drink these words, open, and discover the treasure offered to you, starting from within your own heart. Living this message will change your life.”
— Alan Cohen, author of Rising in Love
Robert Holden, Ph.D.’s innovative work on psychology and spirituality has been featured on Oprah, Good Morning America, and the PBS special Shift Happens! and in two major BBC-TV documentaries, The Happiness Formula and How to Be Happy. Robert leads Living Your Purpose retreats to Assisi. He hosts a Hero’s Journey Mastermind. He has taught workshops on Purpose & the Enneagram in London, Findhorn, and Italy. His article for Oprah.com, “Discover Your Purpose,” is a people’s favorite.Robert’s services as a consultant and coach are employed worldwide by organizations and brands such as Dove & the Real Beauty Campaign, the Body Shop, IBM, Google, and Virgin. In the last two years, he has worked with Unilever on a BRAND PURPOSE mission for all of its 400 brands.Robert has presented two TEDx talks on Destination Addiction and The Tea Meditation. He has given over 100 keynotes to industry and 50 keynote talks for I CAN DO IT! conferences worldwide. Robert is a best-selling author of 10 books, including Happiness NOW!, Authentic Success (formerly titled Success Intelligence), Shift Happens!, Loveability, Holy Shift!, Life Loves You (co-written with Louise Hay), and Finding Love Everywhere. www.robertholden.com

About

"Love is your destiny. It is the purpose of your life. It is the key to your happiness and to the evolution of the world."

Loveability is a meditation on love. It addresses the most important thing you will ever learn. All the happiness, health, and abundance you experience in life comes from your ability to love and be loved. This ability is innate, not acquired.

Robert Holden is the creator of a unique program on love called Loveability, which he teaches worldwide. He has helped thousands of people to transform their experience of love. "Love is the real work of your life," says Robert. "As you release the blocks to love you flourish even more in your relationships, work, and life."

In Loveability, Robert weaves a beautiful mix of timeless principles and helpful practices about the nature of true love. With great intimacy and warmth, he shares stories, conversations, meditations, and poetry that have inspired him in his personal inquiry on love. Key themes include:

   • Your destiny is not just to find love; it is to be the most loving person you can be.
   • Self-love is how you are meant to feel about yourself. It is the key to loving others.
   • When you think something is missing in a relationship, it is probably you.
   • Forgiveness helps you to see that love has never hurt you; it is only your misperceptions of love that hurt.
   • The greatest influence you can have in any situation is to be the presence of love.

Reviews

“Robert Holden is the ideal example of Loveability. He certainly knows how to love and be loved. He loves everyone he knows, and we all love him in return. He knows and understands what stands in the way of loving ourselves and others. And most importantly he knows and teaches how to dissolve these blocks. How could we not love him?”
— Louise Hay, author of Love Yourself, Heal Your Life Workbook

“Robert Holden is a teacher of incredible wisdom, integrity, and compassion. This beautiful book is a joyous reminder of the transformative power of love in the world. I heartily recommend Loveability to all.”
— Dr. Brian Weiss, author of Only Love Is Real

Loveability is an inspiring book that gently encourages readers to reflect upon their relationship to the nature and the power of love itself. Nothing could be more timely or more transformational.”
— Caroline Myss, New York Times best-selling author of Defy Gravity and Archetypes: Who Are You?

Loveability teaches you how to undo the blocks that prevent you from having more love in all your relationships. I wholeheartedly recommend this book.”
— Marci Shimoff, New York Times best-selling author of Love for No Reason

“I am a devoted Robert Holden fan and have fallen madly, deeply for his new book! It teaches us the most important thing we can do— give and receive love. Robert will help you open your eyes so you can open your heart and create a life full of joy and love. Everyone—and I do mean everyone—should read this life-uplifting book.”
— Kris Carr, New York Times best-selling author of Crazy Sexy Kitchen and Crazy Sexy Diet

“Robert Holden has written a beautiful treatise on love. Please give yourself this gift.”
— Cheryl Richardson, author of The Art of Extreme Self-Care


“It’s not easy to discuss love in a way that is not overly sentimental (or perceived as such). Robert Holden writes with a sense of humor, clarity, and compassion about the depth of love we are all capable of, and in fact we all embody. This is a joyful, illuminating book to read.”
— Sharon Salzberg, author of Lovingkindness

“Robert Holden’s new book, Loveability, guides us to stop looking for love and accept our truth: that we are love. This book is a magnificent guide toward unlearning the fears that block us from the presence of love within. I love this book!”
— Gabrielle Bernstein, author of Spirit Junkie and May Cause Miracles

“It is a pleasure to endorse your book. Congratulations! This is a great book; real love makes a difference in life.”
— Miguel Angel Ruiz, author of The Four Agreements

Loveability teaches you to listen to the voice of love in your heart. It helps you to forgive the past, to live in the present, and to make love more important than fear.”
— Gerald Jampolsky, author of Love is Letting Go of Fear

Loveability should be placed in every soul’s backpack before we come to this planet to help us remember what we have forgotten.”
— Chuck Spezzano, author of If It Hurts, It isn’t Love

“I am in awe of Robert Holden’s ability to translate the wisdom of love in such simple and relatable terms. Loveabilityis a masterpiece of the heart and a must read for anyone seeking to be inspired to live a love-based life.”
— Mastin Kipp, CEO and founder of TheDailyLove.com

Loveability beautifully escorts the reader into the very heart of what we seek most, which is to be loved. Poetic, grounding, honest, and raw, it lifts the veil of dark confusion and fear to reveal that we can never be separated from the love we seek, because it is who we are. Its healing words will stay with you long after the last page.”
— Sonia Choquette, author of Traveling at the Speed of Love
 
“This book is a gem! It opened my heart wide, and it can profoundly transform your life as well. The author, Robert Holden, embodies Loveability; love pours out of every molecule of his body, and he has infused this book with the sweet energy of love. You can feel it radiate into your heart from every page. Highly recommended!”
— Denise Linn, author of The Soul Loves the Truth

“Robert Holden is one of the clearest, purest, and most poignant voices for love in our time. You will find no greater teaching than this book contains. If you are seeking love, you will find the key in these pages. If you have found love, you will find more here. Drink these words, open, and discover the treasure offered to you, starting from within your own heart. Living this message will change your life.”
— Alan Cohen, author of Rising in Love

Author

Robert Holden, Ph.D.’s innovative work on psychology and spirituality has been featured on Oprah, Good Morning America, and the PBS special Shift Happens! and in two major BBC-TV documentaries, The Happiness Formula and How to Be Happy. Robert leads Living Your Purpose retreats to Assisi. He hosts a Hero’s Journey Mastermind. He has taught workshops on Purpose & the Enneagram in London, Findhorn, and Italy. His article for Oprah.com, “Discover Your Purpose,” is a people’s favorite.Robert’s services as a consultant and coach are employed worldwide by organizations and brands such as Dove & the Real Beauty Campaign, the Body Shop, IBM, Google, and Virgin. In the last two years, he has worked with Unilever on a BRAND PURPOSE mission for all of its 400 brands.Robert has presented two TEDx talks on Destination Addiction and The Tea Meditation. He has given over 100 keynotes to industry and 50 keynote talks for I CAN DO IT! conferences worldwide. Robert is a best-selling author of 10 books, including Happiness NOW!, Authentic Success (formerly titled Success Intelligence), Shift Happens!, Loveability, Holy Shift!, Life Loves You (co-written with Louise Hay), and Finding Love Everywhere. www.robertholden.com