Introduction
CHAPTER 1
Desire Lines: The Science of Unlearning
CHAPTER 2
Love
Questions for People You Love
CHAPTER 3
Cognitive Dissonance
CHAPTER 4
Community
Writing out of Normalcy: An Unlearning Opener
CHAPTER 5
Confrontation
INTERLUDE: On Stories and Unlearning
Retelling Our Own Stories: A Few Questions for Reflection
CHAPTER 6
Questions
Unlearning Interviews: A Template
CHAPTER 7
Somatics
INTERLUDE: “Coming out of the Fog” and Embodiment Through Drag
CHAPTER 8
Practice
CHAPTER 9
Poetry and Surrealism
What Is It Like to Be a Boat? A Reverse Presentation
CHAPTER 10
Immersion
CHAPTER 11
Accessibility
INTERLUDE: Children’s Minds, Adults’ Limits, and Unlearning as a Disruptive Pivot
Questions for Ongoing Reflection
CONCLUSION
Desire, Yearning, and the Unknown
Acknowledgments
Notes