INTRODUCTION
Adoptee Manifesto
PART I: DISCOVERING
CHAPTER 1
You Should Be Grateful
CHAPTER 2
The Adoptee Lounge
CHAPTER 3
How Much Did I Cost?
CHAPTER 4
My Ghost Kingdom
CHAPTER 5
The Search
PART II: EXPERIENCING
CHAPTER 6
White Privilege by Osmosis
CHAPTER 7
Sandy the Flower Man
CHAPTER 8
Unclaimed
CHAPTER 9
Filling the Void
CHAPTER 10
Survivor’s Guilt
CHAPTER 11
Sandy’s Death
CHAPTER 12
I’m Still Looking for My Baby
CHAPTER 13
The “M” Word
PART III: RECKONING
CHAPTER 14
Us vs. Them
CHAPTER 15
The Sondersphere
CHAPTER 16
An Out-of-Bounds Love
Gratitude
Notes
Index
