Part 1Plays for Strategic ThinkingImagine you’re about to share an idea during a brainstorming session. As you consider speaking up, your inner voice whispers, You’re going to embarrass yourself, or Your ideas aren’t good enough.
Now imagine a different script. This time your brain tells you, You’ve got a creative idea here. Just take a deep breath and communicate what you know. Feel the difference?
Your inner dialogue influences your confidence, performance, and even your enjoyment at work. The good news is you have the power to reframe unconstructive scripts once you have the strategies to do so.
Too often, people label themselves as “overthinkers” or say things like, “I’m just a pessimist.” But you don’t have to be stuck with those thinking patterns. With the right game plan, you can develop new thinking patterns and a perspective that helps you thrive.
All you need are some plays that help you respond to unhelpful thoughts. Not only do these plays change your thinking in the moment, but when you run them consistently, you rewire how your brain operates. Practicing them over time builds a stronger, more flexible mindset. And that’s crucial.
Why Your Thoughts MatterYour mindset isn’t just about the personal conversations that go on inside your head. It can either be a professional asset that helps you rise to new challenges or a liability that holds you back from success. Your thought patterns affect:
• Your ability to solve problems. This is impossible will prevent you from finding solutions. But reframing obstacles as puzzles sparks creative solutions.
• Your openness to change. My manager has no idea what she’s talking about! will keep you on the defensive. Reframing your thoughts to see feedback as a learning opportunity can inspire positive change.
• Your focus under stress. I have way too much to do will fuel your feelings of overwhelm. Choosing to break a task into smaller, strategic steps can create the momentum you need to get things done.
• Your professional growth. I’ll mess this up stops you from taking risks. Reframing those thoughts to I can learn as I go helps you rise to new challenges.
• Your motivation to get work done. I’ll never get this done well enough may lead to procrastination. Thinking about how capable you are can inspire you to get to work, even when it’s difficult.
• Your workplace relationships. My colleague doesn’t respect me will affect how you interact and could fuel unnecessary conflict. Thinking about your ability to develop new relationship skills, however, could help you cooperate.
The Role of Realistic and Constructive ThinkingThere’s often the assumption that positive thinking is the ultimate goal. But unrealistically positive thoughts can be just as harmful as unrealistically negative ones. A better goal is to develop realistic and constructive thoughts.
For example, thinking This test is going to be hard isn’t necessarily harmful. It may be true—and thinking realistically about the challenge might motivate you to study harder.
On the flip side, thinking This will be easy! sounds optimistic. But overconfidence might cause you to underprepare, and your performance might suffer.
Building mental strength isn’t about being positive all the time. It’s about recognizing when your thoughts are helpful versus unhelpful. If your inner narrative is working against you, it’s time to call an audible and reframe the story (we’ll discuss how to do that later in this section).
The Most Powerful Types of Thoughts You Can ChangeYour brain generates an endless stream of thoughts that review the past, make predictions about the future, and narrate what’s happening right now. Many of your thoughts aren’t accurate—yet we often treat them as facts, and doing so can affect how we approach tasks. Here are the types of thoughts that influence you:
• Stories about the past. Your mind might replay past mistakes and cause you to doubt yourself. On the flip side, it might rewrite past experiences as lessons that strengthen your confidence.
• Beliefs about yourself. Maybe a comment someone made to you as a child, like “You lack creativity” still plays in your head. But you can learn to tell yourself “I’m resourceful when I need to be” so you feel empowered to solve problems.
• Expectations about the future. Thinking I’m going to fail will drain your motivation and potentially become a self-fulfilling prophecy. But replacing that thought with curiosity can help you see things from a different angle, which might increase your chances of success.
Take Control of Your ThoughtsImagine rewiring your inner dialogue into one that empowers you to take action and solve problems. Not only can you learn to replace unhelpful thoughts with more helpful ones, but you can also become more deliberate about which thoughts you listen to. Taking control of your thoughts can transform how you show up every day.
This section introduces three types of plays that will shift your thinking and strengthen your mental game:
1. Confidence Catalysts. Run plays that help you tackle challenges with the self-assurance you need to do your best.
2. Attitude Adjusters. These strategies reframe your perspective so you can enjoy your work more and perform better.
3. Insight Igniters. Reach for these plays when you need to boost creativity and make the best decisions possible.
The way you think affects how you feel and how you behave. So it’s important to recognize when your thoughts aren’t serving you well so you can shift your thinking. Running these plays will help you develop the mindset you need to excel, no matter what your brain is trying to convince you to believe.
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