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    Hot Connections

    Why Sexual Platforms Matter

    Author Jenny Sundén, Susanna Paasonen, Katrin Tiidenberg
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    On sale Mar 24, 2026 | 224 Pages | 9780262052061
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    A rethinking of “the social” in social media which includes the sexual.

    What can we learn from including sexual platforms in definitions of social media and, by extension, from including sex in definitions of “the social” itself? Hot Connections explores three locally operating sexual platforms: the Swedish Darkside, used by kink and BDSM practitioners; the Estonian Libertine Center, used mainly by nonmonogamous people; and the Finnish Alastonsuomi, used for a wide variety of nude and sexual displays of self-expression. What avenues do these platforms open for understanding the role that sexuality plays in people’s networked routines, social bonds, and forms of relating?

    Sexual social media affords freedom of worldmaking, belonging, and a right to sexually exist. While providing vital spaces for sexual self-expression—and indeed, hot connections—platform connectivity also involves friction as expectations, wishes, and desires clash and collide.

    Intervening in debates on the value of sexual social media, Hot Connections discusses what it means to research sexuality when sexual data is understood as sensitive by default, what platform governance may look like if viewed from the margins, and how sex and intimacy are not the same thing in networked sexuality.
    ENDORSEMENTS

    “An intellectual vibrator—charged, pointed, and unafraid to go deep—Hot Connections is essential reading from iconic scholars of digital sexuality. It rewrites the rules on how we think about platforms, pleasure, and people.”
    —Alexander Monea, author of The Digital Closet: How the Internet Became Straight

    “Three talented researchers examine platforms too often overlooked—Hot Connections corrects how we’ve long understood social media and reveals the shape sociality takes when sex isn’t moderated away.”
    —Tarleton Gillespie, author of Custodians of the Internet

    “Hot Connections is a genuinely innovative study of what makes sexual social platforms ‘social.’ It offers deep insights into the evolving ethics of digital intimacies in a climate of data extraction and deplatforming of sexual cultures.”
    —Kath Albury, author of Everyday Data Cultures and Data for Social Good: Non-Profit Sector Data Projects
    Jenny Sundén is Professor of Gender Studies at Uppsala University, Sweden. She is a coauthor of Who’s Laughing Now? (MIT Press) and Gender and Sexuality in Online Game Cultures.

    Susanna Paasonen is Professor of Media Studies at the University of Turku, Finland. She is the author of Carnal Resonance and Dependent, Distracted, Bored, as well as a coauthor of NSFW and Who's Laughing Now? (all MIT Press).

    Katrin Tiidenberg is Professor of Participatory Culture at Tallinn University, Estonia. She is a coauthor of Tumblr and Sex and Social Media and the author of Selfies.
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    Table of contents
    Acknowledgements
    1. Sexual social media 1
    2. Studying sexual platforms 17
    3. Governing from the margins 49
    4. Sexual sociability and spaces to breathe 82
    5. Sense of the local 115
    6. Vanilla normies and proud pervs 148
    7. When sex and intimacy are not the same thing 181
    8. Apprehension, friction, and mundane pleasures 212
    References 236
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    A rethinking of “the social” in social media which includes the sexual.

    What can we learn from including sexual platforms in definitions of social media and, by extension, from including sex in definitions of “the social” itself? Hot Connections explores three locally operating sexual platforms: the Swedish Darkside, used by kink and BDSM practitioners; the Estonian Libertine Center, used mainly by nonmonogamous people; and the Finnish Alastonsuomi, used for a wide variety of nude and sexual displays of self-expression. What avenues do these platforms open for understanding the role that sexuality plays in people’s networked routines, social bonds, and forms of relating?

    Sexual social media affords freedom of worldmaking, belonging, and a right to sexually exist. While providing vital spaces for sexual self-expression—and indeed, hot connections—platform connectivity also involves friction as expectations, wishes, and desires clash and collide.

    Intervening in debates on the value of sexual social media, Hot Connections discusses what it means to research sexuality when sexual data is understood as sensitive by default, what platform governance may look like if viewed from the margins, and how sex and intimacy are not the same thing in networked sexuality.

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    ENDORSEMENTS

    “An intellectual vibrator—charged, pointed, and unafraid to go deep—Hot Connections is essential reading from iconic scholars of digital sexuality. It rewrites the rules on how we think about platforms, pleasure, and people.”
    —Alexander Monea, author of The Digital Closet: How the Internet Became Straight

    “Three talented researchers examine platforms too often overlooked—Hot Connections corrects how we’ve long understood social media and reveals the shape sociality takes when sex isn’t moderated away.”
    —Tarleton Gillespie, author of Custodians of the Internet

    “Hot Connections is a genuinely innovative study of what makes sexual social platforms ‘social.’ It offers deep insights into the evolving ethics of digital intimacies in a climate of data extraction and deplatforming of sexual cultures.”
    —Kath Albury, author of Everyday Data Cultures and Data for Social Good: Non-Profit Sector Data Projects

    Author

    Jenny Sundén is Professor of Gender Studies at Uppsala University, Sweden. She is a coauthor of Who’s Laughing Now? (MIT Press) and Gender and Sexuality in Online Game Cultures.

    Susanna Paasonen is Professor of Media Studies at the University of Turku, Finland. She is the author of Carnal Resonance and Dependent, Distracted, Bored, as well as a coauthor of NSFW and Who's Laughing Now? (all MIT Press).

    Katrin Tiidenberg is Professor of Participatory Culture at Tallinn University, Estonia. She is a coauthor of Tumblr and Sex and Social Media and the author of Selfies.
    Jenny Sundén View titles by Jenny Sundén
    Susanna Paasonen View titles by Susanna Paasonen
    Katrin Tiidenberg View titles by Katrin Tiidenberg

    Table of Contents

    Table of contents
    Acknowledgements
    1. Sexual social media 1
    2. Studying sexual platforms 17
    3. Governing from the margins 49
    4. Sexual sociability and spaces to breathe 82
    5. Sense of the local 115
    6. Vanilla normies and proud pervs 148
    7. When sex and intimacy are not the same thing 181
    8. Apprehension, friction, and mundane pleasures 212
    References 236

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